Butch lesbian in front of Taj Majal in India

Heather in front of the Taj Majal. This was a week before a woman told her she looked like a man, in other words, much happier times.

Heather Knight (she/her/they/them) identifies as a soft butch lesbian who tends to lean masculine of center on how they present. With this comes a lot of confusion from the general public. Heather is often misgendered, “sir’d” or given weird looks when entering the women’s bathroom. One time, in India, a local woman made sure to tell her “You know, you look like a man!”. That experience triggered the idea of a domain name. She registered it, sat on it for a while, and now is doing something about it. This website and all media associated with it will share the adventures Heather has as she navigates the world we all live in, from the perspective of a cisgender, white, queer woman.

A few things you might want to know about Heather:

  • Loves to travel, domestically and internationally.

  • US/Italy citizen

  • Enjoys coffee, whiskey, and Jesus, in that order.

  • Food brings her much joy, especially good food. And ice cream.

  • Sarcastic, and doesn’t put up with shit. What you see is what you get. If you don’t want an honest answer, don’t ask the question.

  • Currently splits their time between Tucson, AZ and a tiny town in the region of Abruzzo, Italy.

  • Part-time vanlifer, building out a 2011 Chevy Express 3500 cargo van into a home on wheels. Previously, a 2008 Honda Element with a Roofnest Sparrow rooftop tent.

  • Works full time, remote for a SF-based tech company you either love or you hate, but isn’t one of the evil ones.

  • Enjoys hiking, backpacking, car camping, and generally being in the outdoors.

  • Does not like the water, even though she is a Pisces.

  • Is fully vaccinated and believes in science.